POLICIES
Clear and concise communication is imperative to a successful date.
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As I balance a career and growing businesses, my time as Lorie is offered selectively. Appointments are by request, and I invite you to reach out to align our calendars.
I primarily offer outcall services to upscale hotels and private residences in Washington, DC and Richmond, VA. Private residences require additional screening, without exception.
Baltimore Note: Although listed as a base city for visibility across the DMV on ad sites, Baltimore requires a local DMTY fee unless I am there on tour or personal travel as shown on my tour schedule and website.
I'm also available to travel throughout Virginia and Maryland, please see my website for details.
I visit NYC, Chicago, and LA regularly (1–3 times per quarter) as I establish a presence in my favorite cities, and occasionally host one-day mini tours elsewhere. I'm also open to exclusive travel with and to you and welcome sponsored engagements.
New clients must preferably book 24 hour hours in advance, if thats not feasible Same-day appointments, if available, may require a $100 rush fee and a mandatory 50% deposit. Please be screening and deposit ready once availability is confirmed.
Sat-Wed After 4pm I have a 1hr minimum. Sat-Wed all inquiries sent and settled before 3pm EST will be considered for same day.
All other days and when on tour/traveling all inquiries sent before 6pm will be considered for same day.
Pre-screen if you’re a last-minute type who may want to meet later.
Returning clients are welcome to book more spontaneously. Allow at least 4 hours’ notice (3 hours if I’m touring), and be deposit ready if availability is confirmed.
Engagements requested outside standard hours (before 8 AM or after 12 AM) are available with a $250 extended-hours fee or the option to make an overnight.
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Please contact me via booking form, email, or text, including all requested details. Advance booking is preferred, as I thoughtfully balance my time with other professional commitments to ensure our experience is never rushed.
When reaching out, I kindly ask that communication be consistent. A lack of response is understood as a lack of interest, and I will simply move forward with my day and other inquiries. Please note that I do not hold spots—messages are answered in the order received, but bookings are only confirmed once a deposit is made. If you need to pause during the booking process, please let me know so I can keep your inquiry active.
For nearby bookings, 2 weeks to 4 hours in advance fits my schedule. Traveling outside the DMV? 1 month to 24 hours is ideal for smooth planning. And for international adventures, 2 months to 72 hours lets me prepare to wow you.
Bookings must be finalized within just a few messages. Any inquiries that extend beyond the initial inquiry, screening, deposit, and essential questions will be redirected or discontinued if it becomes clear that booking is not your goal or if indecision is causing delays. This process is time-consuming and will not be tolerated.
Public figures are welcome to inquire via email for discreet screening alternatives.
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A deposit beginning at $100 is required to secure your date, with the amount varying by duration.
Preferred discreet methods include cryptocurrency, CashApp, a gift card of my choosing, or an in-person cash handoff (subject to a $100 accommodation fee).
When submitting a deposit using the provided methods, please leave the memo or note section completely blank. Do not include terms like 'deposit,' 'date,' 'dinner,' or anything similar. If the platform prompts you to enter a reason for the transaction, please pause and contact me first for guidance. Thank you for your discretion and cooperation.
The remaining balance is due upon arrival, in cash only unless previously agreed upon within five minutes, discreetly placed in a white envelope, or tucked into a book or card if meeting in public.
Do not make me ask for my donation for our time together. Do not short me of my donation. Do not attempt to suggest other forms of payment upon my arrival; I reserve the right to excuse myself, and end our date.
A completed screening is required before a deposit is accepted and our date is confirmed. I do not meet with anyone who has not been screened.
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For local and localDrive Me To You (DMTY) sessions:
Cancel more than 72 hours in advance, and your deposit is fully transferable within one month.
Your deposit will be forfeited if a booking is not made within the 30-day time frame. A new deposit fee will be required to meet.
Cancel between 72 and 24 hours before the appointment, and 50–100% of the session fee will be required before rebooking; the original deposit will be forfeited.
For all sessions during my personal travels (including DMTY):
Cancel two weeks or more in advance, and your deposit is transferable to the next tour date.
Cancel within one week, and 100% of the session fee will be required before rebooking; the deposit will be forfeited.
For non-sponsored and sponsored travel engagements (excluding local and personal travel/tour DMTY):
Cancel more than two weeks in advance, and your deposit is transferable to a new date, less any non-refundable travel expenses already incurred. Additional travel fees will be the client’s responsibility.
Cancel within one week, and 100% of the session fee plus any additional travel fees will be required before rebooking.
Punctuality & No-Shows:
Arrivals 15 minutes or more late may result in a shortened or canceled session. Sessions end promptly at the scheduled time regardless of arrival unless extended.
No-shows or last-minute cancellations require full payment before future bookings are accepted.
Excessive rescheduling may lead to a requirement of upfront payment to secure sessions.
More than two no-shows will result in being blacklisted from my personal books indefinitely.
While I expect these terms to be honored, I am open to accommodations when possible. If you find yourself inside the cancellation window, please reach out. If my schedule allows, I will do my best to find a solution. However, if accommodations are not possible, the above terms apply.
Deposits are refundable only if I must cancel.
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Screening is non-negotiable. My safety, freedom, and reputation are paramount and I will never compromise on these fundamentals.
To move forward, please provide the following essential information for screening: full name, registered phone number, city and state based, and month/year of birth.
I offer a multitude of ways to screen. Screening is mandatory. All new friends will go through a screening process of submitting either photo ID or preferred method work verification from the below list of options.
Government Issued ID - I will need a copy along with a selfie. Full name, DOB, EXP, Class, Lic# must remain visible. You can cover all other information with paper or tape, no digital alterations allowed. You will then take a selfie as well holding it.
LinkedIn - you will send a connection requests to my discreetly male named account, account must not be newly created, must be actively used, must have an acceptable amount of connections, and have a professional headshot. Preference to those LinkedIn ID verified.
Work/University Badge - I will need a copy and selfie holding it.
Email from professional or university issued domain from reputable public company /school. The email wont be responded to for privacy reasons. Male named discreet gmail will be provided.
A company staff page or verified business listing that includes your photo*, name, and role.
FOR BUSINESS VERIFICATION, PLEASE PROVIDE YOUR LLC NAME AND STATE OF REGISTRATION + PROOF OF OWNERSHIP (BUSINESS CARD OR WEBSITE)
All screening methods verify your identity and the accuracy of the information provided. Your occupation, relationship status, or personal life are all irrelevant to me— my focus is solely on ensuring your presence poses no threat to my safety or freedom.
If you cannot understand or respect this boundary, please do not contact me. Seek companionship elsewhere.
Thank you for understanding and respecting this process.
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In the spirit of connection and transparency, I will be accepting TER and P411 reviews for a short time. Past, present, and new friends who are members are warmly invited to reach out before contributing.
I do also appreciate thoughtful messages via my review page, email or text post date, and am happy to share them on my personal review page.
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Before we meet, please ensure your hygiene is well attended to. Shower, freshen your breath, and keep your nails neatly clipped. If there are areas where you’d like me to pay special attention, I encourage you to trim or shave the hair accordingly. Please avoid wearing strong colognes or scents.
If you’re coming from work or another location without shower access, you are welcome to freshen up at my incall, where soap and soft towels will be ready for you.
Should your hygiene not meet these standards upon arrival, and you decline the opportunity to address personal grooming, I reserve the right to end our date respectfully and immediately. In such cases, all payments and deposits will be forfeited, and you will no longer be able to book with me going forward.
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I value thoughtful, respectful communication. Please refrain from using explicit language or discussing explicit topics when arranging our time together.
Certain language that may be exciting in private during a date is not appropriate when booking. Boundary crossing in initial communications will result in your meeting requests being discarded.
If you follow my X or Instagram accounts, kindly avoid referencing or requesting in-person experiences on those platforms.
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I’m more than happy to provide a referral for each time we meet. Example, if we've only had one interaction, I can offer a reference based on that occasion. I kindly ask that you reach out to me in advance when requesting a referral, as this ensures I can give you the most thoughtful and timely support. I do not and will never charge for a reference. Providers please reach out here.
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Your conduct sets the tone for our time together. Should I ever feel unsafe, disrespected, or that gentlemanly standards are not being upheld, I reserve the right to conclude our engagement immediately, without refund. Mutual respect is non-negotiable, and I expect to be treated with the same grace and regard that I extend to you.”
“Each person’s reality is different; to truly connect, we must listen and enter their world.
— Anaïs Nin
FAQS
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I keep it simple: if you’re kind, respectful, and 21 or older, you’re already on the right track. No matter your race, gender, or story, I’m open to connecting with you. Need any special accommodations? Just say the word—I’m here to make our time together feel easy and unforgettable. text goes here
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Whatever the occasion calls for—I’ve got the perfect look waiting. From sleek and sophisticated to effortlessly sexy, my wardrobe is all about making you smile. Have a request? Don’t hesitate to ask. Either way, I’ll show up looking flawless and feeling fabulous.
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Every photo you see is real and up-to-date—I promise I look just as captivating in person. I keep fit and healthy to maintain this look. For privacy reasons, I’ve lightly edited out two tattoos in my pictures, but they’re part of me and subtle in real life.
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I keep my face private to maintain discretion for both of us. Sharing unblurred photos ahead of time isn’t something I do. But when we meet, I guarantee you’ll see the same stunning, polished woman you’ve been curious about. I take great care of my appearance—every detail counts.
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It’s sweet to want to plan ahead and show you care, but it’s best to hold off on mentioning dates, gifts, or assistance until you’re certain you can honor them. Premature discussions may unintentionally elevate hopes or set expectations that can’t be met, and can sometimes be perceived negatively or lead to other misunderstandings. Prioritizing honest and clear communication helps build a genuine, respectful connection.
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Usually within 24 hours. I balance this with a full life, so from time to time, messages slip through. If it’s been 36–48 hours and your inquiry was complete and respectful, feel free to follow up—gently. If it wasn’t, I’ve likely moved on. And don’t forget to check your spam folder… sometimes my replies like to play hard to get.
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I’m open-minded and embrace exploration with discretion and mutual respect. Please select VIP on the booking form if you'd like to explore something specific. We’ll discuss your desires privately, after screening and deposit are complete.
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For nearby bookings, 2 weeks to 4 hours in advance fits my schedule. Traveling outside the DMV? 1 month to 24 hours is ideal for smooth planning. And for international adventures, 2 months to 72 hours lets me prepare to wow you.
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No assistants here I personally handle all screening to keep things intimate and secure. Your info stays just between us.
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Absolutely. For an additional $100 per hour, I can ensure total discretion. Meal and entertainment arrangements remain necessary.
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My prices are set with care and respect; I don’t negotiate. Preferred rates are offered only for advance bookings during personal or tour travel.
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Yes, I do. Here’s how it works:
Duos: While I am still vetting permanent duo partners I will not be offering duos.
I am also not open to random partners I am not already previously acquainted with professionally as I have a need for privacy and discretion as well.
I’m however open to connecting with fellow providers trusting your taste and judgement, granted there is mutual respect and ample time to get acquainted beforehand. A proper introduction is essential I will require a relaxed setting over a shared meal and drinks, graciously covered by you, the client.
When the time comes the following stipulations apply: must be with one of my trusted partners or above requirement met and must match the highest provider rate, with a 1.5-hour minimum or their minimum if higher.
Couples: All parties must complete screening and consent. The rate is 1.5x, with a 1.5-hour minimum.
Groups of up to 3: Everyone must be screened. Rates range from 2x to 3x depending on the number of participants, with a 1.5-hour minimum.
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GFE can mean many different things depending on who you ask; providers and clients often define it in their own way.
As for me and my version of the Girlfriend Experience is rooted in ease, warmth, and genuine connection. It’s about spending time together in a way that feels comfortable, natural, and mutually respectful where you can simply relax and be yourself.
You can expect:
Engaging conversation and relaxed companionship
A calm, low-pressure environment
Discretion, kindness, and an overall enjoyable vibe
I move with intention and protect my peace. This means I do not entertain any activity that would put my physical, mental, or emotional health at risk. I hold myself, and those I spend time with to high standards of safety, cleanliness, and mutual care. That said I do not offer any unsafe services.
I entered this space as Lorie, whole and well and I plan to remain that way. Thank you for honoring that.
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I completely understand in this space, discretion and trust are everything. That’s why I only connect through my verified contact points listed here.
If you're approached elsewhere, please assume it's not legitimate. Scammers are common, but easily avoided when you know where to find me.
Verified Contacts:
Twitter: @lorieharvee
Backup Twitter:
Instagram: @lorieharvee
Backup Instagram:
Tryst: @lorieharvee
Booking Email: inquire@lorieharvee.com
Throne: @lorieharvee
Onlyfans: @lorieharvee
I’m always happy to confirm you’ve reached the real me. I welcome your due diligence.
Please note some pages listed above are currently under construction but still belong to me.
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Because I value creating the perfect setting for our time together. My schedule is adaptable, I believe the right timing sets the tone. From an early morning start to a night that stretches past midnight, my schedule is open for what feels right.
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Meeting someone new should feel exciting, not overwhelming. I’m naturally warm, engaging, and just the right mix of flirtatious and refined. Whether you’re feeling bold or a little shy, I can guide our time together at a pace that feels effortlessly natural.
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